There is not much I can do to determine why you might be missing a totem. The log file does not record totem creation, and examining your game would not provide any clues, either. We have seen some indication that villagers who become elders as a result of banging the gong might not get a totem, or the totem might not persist, but that hasn't been substantiated by reliable testing.
i have been thinking about this some more and one of my elders gained skill from the gong but it didn't makie them an elder at the time. they later went on to become an elder. from memory I think this was before I 'lost' a totem
so do you think this could be what happened? When they became an elder their totem didn't appear because it was as an indirect result of them being given skill by the gong? Would that also mean that if they became a master in a fourth skill that the totem would appear then?
Mystery solved?
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