dear quickstorm- my mom was 76 when she had her cataract surgery-maybe your mom would find comfort in talking to other people who have had it done - thats what my mom did - she was glad she had the surgery. Sadly, the Lord called her home at the age of 78 unexpectedly. (How I miss her and it over 6 years now) Tell your mom that life is to short and to take care of herself she will be glad she did. Don't forget she is an adult and the ultimate descision is hers - so do not push too hard and get her frustrated. Keep us informed - I wish you well ; )

PS Lady CFII I know how had it is to lose an animal too - you will never replace your beloved pet (family member) but another new "child" helps to soften the pain.