ok I need help I tried this 3x's first is there anyone special that makes this easier or can any peep do it? I have got 3 of them to meditate and have white and yellow spots above thier heads once that happens I carry them to get a bar of soap first they want to get out right away so I keep putting them back in then after they swim for a few secs I pick them up and bring them to the hole in the tree and it always says some thing not pure do I bath them 1st then the mind or the mind 1st then bath or do I have the bath already soapy by someone eles first Help please