thanks! no i always TRY to keep to what i was thinking of when i started the families. BUT i may change that soon cause i started 5 new ones, 2 blonds, 2 reds and 1 blue. well, in the other blond one one of the kids is the square faced one, and thats who i married for blue and got blue girls, so i might choose him, im not sure yet!! about the names, do u have to change them b4 college or can i wait til i get them back? because in my blue one, i have Mr and Mrs Bleu, then i let the girls keep their game names b/c ive never changed them after and will it mess up my family tree? i want to have MR and Mrs Bleu 2,3,4,5 and so on see?