Did he dislike swimming and wood? These two refuse to farm...in fact they rush out of the ocean and complain to one of the totems. Building...well, they dislike wood, and won't light the fire either. (I'm at my wit's end with them...and that wasn't far to go.) They don't seem to swim in the pond either. I set one to parenting, and every single female ran away from him. Good for the girls, I say!