Hello VFladyaddict2010. Your tool tray is on the left side of the game screen (see below). To feed your little family, click the bag of groceries in the tool tray, then click on the kitchen table. The groceries will be placed on the table and your little family members will put them away. Next, drop an adult (or child 14 years old or older) at the table and they will begin to prepare a meal. When they’ve placed the meal on the table you may need to drop everyone at the table to sit down and eat. You will find that your little family does like to snack though. If this was not what you were asking, please explain further and we will assist you.
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