Maybe when the couple goes into the "love house" it can be a toss up or a choice of who (the man or woman) does the caring for the baby. I hated when I returned to the game and was working on a girl esteemed elder just to find out she was caring for a baby, and I would be losing valuable time.

Keep up with the weird pop ups, I love those, especially after I have completed the game and playing for fun. They keep it fun. Last one I had said that one girl thought she was so pretty and I clicked the button that had the tribe agree with her, and now "with such beauty, who needs to work" so she dislikes work and learning!!! LOL! love it.