UPDATE:

Well this is let you all know that nature took it's course by way of Elders passing(age 81) and I started trying to play the game for at least a few mins during the day which lad to an event where several villagers left the island.
Now my age span is workable again..I have 5 babies(age 2-5) 4 children(age 8-11) 3 teens(14, & 2-17 yr olds) then going to age 45 and up...game is running very smooth now