and there is sex in the game too, and players are encouraged to engage their villagers in sexual activity. not to mention incest.

but sex and violence is not what vv is about. vv is about guiding a village to grow, thrive, and prosper. and to do that you need to be able to add and subtract villagers as you see fit.

the stew is the other side of the coin from mating. if one is a loophole, then both are.