I rang the gong yesterday and it said "Gong takes away youth". I couldn't find who it affected but I saw a tombstone shortly after for "Lapis" who died at age 53. He was almost an Elder. A short time later - what do I see? 54 year old Lapis working away and it said he was an Esteemed Elder but no totem for him. I don't know if the Lapis incident and the Gong incident are related but weird.