Amee,

I had this problem and nearly everyone of my 90 had red hair or that purple auburn color. Then I had one blonde boy - the cute one - and the girl with long blonde hair. So eventually the recessive blonde gene will apppear - I guess just like in real life. Now I have 115 villagers and at least 50% are blonde. In one of my newer tribes I have all blondes. I have found that the weird looking guy with the blonde curly mohawk makes really pretty kids. But generally, it seems when a blonde has a baby with a brunette you usually get red. I always get blondes when I mate two blondes. I have also gotten the real pretty girl with the long strawberry blonde hair quite often from a coconut head male (sorry) and the white haired girl with short spiky hair.