I admit I have thought of doing the same thing, and just a matter of minutes ago was sorely tempted, but so far I can't bring myself to do it. It wasn't to elders though, it was to a couple of 20-somethings who have refused everything I have tried to teach them. The elders, I let them just wander around and do whatever they like, I feel they deserve it. I just don't make them parents as they are dirty little old ladies and want only the younger men! LOL! So I only click on parent when I want them to teach the kids, then back to research and let them go their merry way.