stops the women from being able to advance to elders

shouldn't have to make that choice

men do work, but they don't do ALL the work

for fairness sake, it would just be nice to have the fathers taking care of baby for a while, let the moms get up and stratch, enjoy the pond, tend the garden, etc
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Why is it that if someone tells you that there are 1 billion stars in the universe you will believe them,
but if they tell you a wall has wet paint you will have to touch it to be sure?