I usually get one person started on fishing right away and get everyone else on research, then keep the minimum (2-3) on getting food till you get L3 farming. Don't have kids too soon and until your village is well on its way, don't take chances on island events. Don't open the box, crate, etc. Yes I have gotten lucky on these events before, but as you're having a tough time at getting going in the first place, I would play it safe....I hope this helps a little