I have two esteemed elders. One has a totem, but the other doesn't. They became esteemed elders overnight, probably at approximately the same time (when I left them last night, they were pretty equal in the 3rd skill; in fact, the one who was lagging a little behind is the one with the totem). Any sense of when the second should get a totem? Is there something I can do to nudge the villagers towards creating the second totem? Thanks!