Ah you did choose it. It gives you the option to put it on or not.
You DO need to read those boxes when installing/downloading things

But yeah, I agree with you Auntie Kim about NOT having something as the default.
And Nara, try Shockwave, sometimes they don't get the games as new as Big Fish nor do they have the selection but you can download as many games as you want for a yearly sub.
That's where I found Virtual Villagers.