Umm. Village Geek? To complain about something is nothing more than to mention that we each are individuals and have preferences. It isn't a political battle, or something that we should have to defend. The complaint wasn't any more offensive than your snapping his head off, although I just had to laugh. Aren't you being just a teensy bit over-sensitive? Do you have a chill pill handy?
I personally started my game over because the only male who was old enough to boink looked like he had a perpetual 5 o'clock shadow. Take THAT, you scroungy thing. You are not going to procreate in MY virtual reality!
It seems to me that instead of taking people to task for not liking the looks of little gray haired people, you could have just mentioned that in this version, the children will look like the parents. So just keep those old hags out of the shack, and I'm guessing you'll probably get rid of that gene

(I get to call them old hags, because at 61, I are one).
I've seen quite a few comments on some of the VV forums about age. One person said they figured the fact that the villagers could no longer procreate after 51 might torque the older ladies off. And I suppose that is possible. We're all individuals. But on MY part, as a 61-yr-old granny, I am glad to know that those poor little old ladies get a break. But can they still boink? Not getting pg ... that's terrific. But someone please tell me they can boink till they croak?