i give my villagers "true names". like if they solved a puzzle, or if they mastered a skill, i give them a special name. (like if a villager caught the fertility fish, i would name him/her "Great Fisher").

whenever a female is caring for a baby, i send them on quests, fist, they must pay respects to their dead ancestors, then, swim across the lagoon, and then, survive the rough ocean currents. after all of that, they get to walk through the garden.

then the children always have to go to school 24/7 (even if there is a celebration) the only exceuse is to gather mushrooms.any child that doesn't attend school will have to walk on water!!!!!

and i let the elderly, fist walk through the garden, then eat at the food bin, go swiming at the lagoon, eat the magical fruit, then they die peacefully.