PS I've got this 55 year old Adept Doctor / Master Scientist who has already gotten 2 women preggers unplanned, one when he was supposed to be "healing" her and one when I dropped him on the research table and inadvertently bumped him into a fellow researcher. OOPS. Recently, he's been pausing frequently to "wait for someone", so the the old horn-dog is clearly up to something.
If he's pausing to wait for someone, it's not necessarily for Embracing... others may want to Teach, Argue, Tell a Joke, or even Praise. When a villager does that repeatedly, then it's usually an indicator that he's the "leader" of the tribe, so don't expect the poor guy to get any work done with everyone else sharing their personal lives with him!