bah, i quit caring a long time ago if people said "the wrong thing". as far as i am concerned, they are expressing their beleifs, and if they don't happen to match mine, oh well.
respect and tolerance are two way streets.
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Why is it that if someone tells you that there are 1 billion stars in the universe you will believe them,
but if they tell you a wall has wet paint you will have to touch it to be sure?