Eyes - I think you misunderstand me.

When I talk about my villagers - I'm talking about my VV people.

When I talk about people pouting and complaining - I'm talking about people in the real world who get offended if a store clerks wishes them a merry Christmas or if their neighbor puts up a manger display. Not my family.

As for my family - well, one brother lives in Arizona. Another has decided he'd rather be an alcoholic and drug addict & live on the streets then be with the family who loves him. The final one will celebrate Christmas with us while mom complains about having to "do all the work" - which she wouldn't have to do if she'd just accept there's more then one way to do a task.