When you get your population built up a bit, they'll be weaning babies all at once and you won't know whose kids are whose, let alone who is brother and sister. Don't stress over it. Maintaining a geneology table would significantly increase the size and requirements of the game.
I think one of the goals is to keep it Palm Pilot friendly. If you have ever tried to play a simulation game on your cell phone or Palm, they're not much fun. The more elaborate the game, the less fun you're going to have on a handheld.
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