I have a population over 30, but a problem. Every single time one of the females is in an "embracing" mood, she heads for him and not one of the others. The problem is, he's well into his 60's and has been healed several times, so I'm afraid I'm killing this old guy, even though he's not complaining. Is it possible for him to die in the "love shack?" If he does, how do I get him out?