I have 3 games going too. You still need to check on them because events happen and you need to check on the kids when they turn 14 and make sure they get trained. It's a good idea to make sure you have healers because a sickness can cause big problems! Some of the people are SO STUBBORN to train!Try making a couple of guys specialize in breeding-the old leches never leave the hut and just keep kissing the nearest girl. I finally threw them in the lagoon to cool off. So don't give up once your village is complete...things can still happen.