None..she has neither..
After I asked this Q went into game, had an event.. a talent scout offered to take her to Europe and study, and star in some films, good timing really.
I decided, tis better then very expensive therapy that's not working, so she's off to another part of 'Europe' Paris perchance...Maybe she'll find happiness there, will she still be available to take the house in next generation, well that's if she's not still depressed..
Ta for the reply..:)