Hi babylocks. Please don't give up on your little Virtual Family. You didn't say if you were using a computer or a handheld device to play your game.
If you're using a computer
this thread will help you. It includes a link to tell you how to make a backup copy of your family so that if they do not have any children you can 'reinstall' from an earlier time when the adults were still young enough to have children. I recommend doing that now.
Also, even though the male doesn't want kids, he can still have them. There have been times where my couples have had a hard time having children, I just was very persistent. Sometimes it paid off with twins!
This thread has more information on babymaking.

"It ain't over until it's over". Good luck!
