It's up to you. If you have the money to buy food, she can sell the collectables to pay for the extras she may need. Or you can go to the next generation and select someone to inherit the house. This child will be there (older like the others)so you could choose her to come back..with a money-making career.

Your choice. Don't worry, the kids in college will all be in their mid twenties, no matter how long you wait.