I had a wife not appear in the family tree. The man was looking over a marriage proposal when I quit the game one night. The next morning he had a new wife, the last one that proposed. Even though she never appeared in the family tree, they had six kids and she just died at 63. He is 62, depressed and just started receiving marriage proposals again!! Has anyone ever heard of this happening? Let me know. BTW, I'm not going to re-marry him, he's just too old and weak for a young wife!