I always let the child go to be a star, you can always let them inherit the house. And I always say yes to the adoptions,
I had one poor adoptee, as soon as he stepped over the door step both the parents died. I felt so sorry for him I let him take over the house. He turned out to be a super peep, he worked hard and mastered his career and fathered six lovely kids.
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"Unless we change the direction we are heading, we might end up where we are going"