Is there something I should be doing or feeding them so that by mid 40's they do not look like they are 70? Also, they are dying before 60.

I had one family that was poor and only got the standard groceries. The other got only organic. The family with organics fared better, slowing later and the husband made it to 66 before passing on. In the family with the regular groceries, they both passed before 60.

My daughter thought that might be the case, but 66 is still not old. They got to 90 in VV3.

O'Jay now 57 w/ a receding hairline. After my first gen,I assumed that they all turn grey (I was so wrong LOL) Libra is grey however she is now 58.

Lol, they all get an "older" look at the age of 45. Some will have the receding hairlines, others will turn grey while some might get bald spots or facial hair!

There's threads about this here:
My First Family - Gray Hair at 46!?
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One of my peeps grew a beard! Why?

I am not too thrilled about how quickly the little people age either. They should really get gray in their late 50's or in their 60's like in real life. My first family's mother and father died together in their 60's, both gray and moving so slowly that it got a bit boring with all the kids gone. One thing I noticed is that if I deliberately kept them from working on their career and made them relax, they aged faster. They like to work and it kept them happier and healthier. I'm now in my second generation and they too are aging fast. My favorite little people are the 2-year-olds, so adorable and funny....that is until they start to age, too quickly.