Hi Eve. Sorry I do not know, I am really just learning about the game myself. I adopted the mother the very first time I played the game because I thought she was pretty. The husband was the 3rd proposal. I was going to keep looking for a different husband, but Dakota turned a bit blue and sent me an email that she was lonely, so I accepted Bistro's proposal. They actually had three girls that looked like the mother. I am so glad I picked Bistro because he is the best husband, he does all the chores and takes good care of Dakota and his family. He always sits by her and if she is confused because I am trying to get her to do some chore, he drops what he's doing and helps her by doing the chore himself. She is happiest taking care of herself in the bathroom. I am going to try to find the same husband in generation two, he's been so wonderful. Here's a pic of my first family. Bistro and Dakota are in their 50's this morning.