Here is a screenshot of my "Two Mommies" Family Tree. As you can see Adrila was born into the family, she married (I can't recall his name now and there are no notes of it) and had 3 children. After she died at age 61, her hubby got a marraige proposal...I accepted, and he was deleted as Adrila's husband and his second wife (Jessette) was put there instead. He and Jessette had no children together...too old!