i logged back in to my family, and i had 3 husbands and 4 wives. it was so sad because all 4 of the wives had a headache, and i couldnt help her because she was a ghost. I switched to another family and switched back and all 4 ghosts of the wife passed away. so sad that i couldnt have her still in the game with her 3 husbands. this is her farewell pic