My strongest rule is no TV. For anyone. I can't control what they watch, so it is better to skip it.(I never watch TV myself.) They always get the red glove for it, but it is a hard behaviour to extinguish. I have one paterfamilias whom I raised and whose description says that he hates TV who now tries it from time to time. (He is in his 40's).
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For most other behaviours I wish to discourage, I use redirection, unless they persist. Then I will use the red glove. I dislike poking plants, bothering fish, playing in the dirt,squeezing pimples, drawing on the wall (why doesn't the game have a sketch pad or easel and paint as an alternative?),digging their way to China, and video games. Video games again coz how do I know what kind of game?
-----------------------------------------------------------------I am not too fond of them dring and warming when neither cold nor wet. I dislike the pout when I accidentally overpraise a behaviour. For children, most misbehavoir lands them at the study desk. I am the kind of person who buys encyclopedias before the child is born, sometimes before conception, as one never knows when they will become available. When they turn 14 I expect increased study and doing their share opf housework. Some do it naturally, and some just won't. Ditto for extra housework when a nursing mother and collectable grabbing if insufficient awake children not engaged in a task I deem important or happen to like. I have had real batles with kids and nursing mothers who won't work. They wind up laundering, watering plants, even in the rain, and so on til they are ready to drop. If they work willingly, they get treats, more leisure time, etc. Even the little kids take out the trash, clean up floor smudges, water the flowers, study, do dishes,weed etc.
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Behaviours I encourage are study, work on career, feeding birds and fish, calling birds, talking to the plants, listening to the sounds of nhature, playing mommy or daddy, playing in the workshop, playing in the office or kitchen depends on parents' careers and whether they are asleep or nursing, etc., drinking, exercise, personal hygeine behavoiurs. I just enjoy the sound of the bird calls. My mother used to be able to do different bird whistles and songs before she passed. Some I encourage sparsely or just let them be. I slightly encourage looking for bugs as it puts them nearby for collecting. Also feeding fish as they can overdo that one to the point that real fish would expire. I am mostly indifferent to playing in the sand, with the toys or browsing the web, but interrupt these more readily for collecting than behaviours that I favor. The radio tends to clash with the background music, but I love it when they dance.
I also encourage reading as long as they don't leave their jobs to do it. I expect them to finish a work unit: earn $ before a break. More work when they are starting out or in a financial pinch. Unless they read exhausted, I do not let them quit in the middle of a work cycle. When exhausted, I put them to bed, unless they have started work elated and keep leaving before finishing over and over til exhausted. Tired people go to bed. Elated kids can nap in a chair and are conveniently located for collecting. I know the ones sprawled around the living rm are fake nappers and thus up for grabs.