yes, thnx, I'm just running into more illness. and NO.. they arent "starved", I keep praising the food prep and the sitting down. but...they just dont seem to be doing it on their own.
I used to be able to leave them for a day, and the food available would go down, and I could re-stock the fridge for them when I got home, and help them "prepare a meal" NOW...the food bar doesnt go down, as if they ate while I was away,