Well, I answered my own question (see post #196891). I just had a dad age 62 who was working on his career in the work shop. Then he just left the shop, went into the house, laid down on the bed and died. I didn't notice what the activity bar said he was doing (taking a nap, going to bed, or whatever) because I thought he was just going into the house to get a drink or something--I didn't realize he was about to die.