I'm shallow: I go for looks and/or money. I don't worry in the least about the desire for children ... I don't have kids myself and it just doesn't matter to me.

And I've learned that even the 'no way!' peeps have no problem actually *having* kids - my first family had a 'no way!' gal and a 'maybe' guy and they ended up with SIX children (five natural and one adopted).