Thank-you LadyCFII!!!!!
I found the remote with the help of your very clear instructions (I am so proud of myself entering into the nether regions of my computer and not blowing it up!)
The remote was under the computer desk.
I had tried to drop my little girl there numerous times, and she just could not get to it.
After changing the large remote back to regular size it was in front of one of the chairs where it was approachable.
This game is fun, and I play it with my six year old grandson.
As an afterword, while he & I were playing the other day, the couple "made a Baby".
He looked at me and said...."Mom & dad jumped on the bed to have Marshall? (his little brother)
Sheesh, Parents sure get away with a lot!"
Needless to say his parents had a talk with him about the difference between Virtual games and real life that night.
~~Kathleen
who is so happy that little Java can now watch TV without standing in front of a blank screen being "Confused"