I clicked open my firt family and Gephi, husband and dad was lying on the childrens' bed, unusual, I click on him and nothing showed up, then his spirit rose, smiling and waving. I cried too. Boo-Hoo LOL! The really sad part is that the last child was 18 and about to leave for college, the mother was very depressed, moping around. I gave her candy, bananas, and then a pat with the green glove, she went to a bit blue. She is still living, I think the dog helps because she is back working and happy, she is 66.