@Bren: I do SO agree with you on that!
The only family I choose to do otherwise, is my Beverly Hills family. Hubby is scolded for doing housework, kids are scolded for playing in the dirt (because: what will the neighbours think? Not proper for these rich kids )

And although this is only a game: I still prefer the 'salty sweets' over scolding.... Never been a big believer in spanking!