As far as the age thing is concerned, it's probably because their "birthday" came and went and his hasn't yet.
Like when you know someone that's a year or two younger than you but their birthday is earlier in the year than yours. For a while, if you just look at the numbers, they seem to be closer in age to you than they actually are.
_________________________
And what if it makes you laugh now but you cry as you fall asleep?