Just an update...

My Vmother and Vfather are at the same career status, they have one child, but the Vfather does make $9 higher in salary. He is a rocket scientist and she is a baker...and I had him for awhile before accepting a marriage proposal. So...??? It doesn't sound like things are too bad for her

I did want to say that HP's advise of having the male stop working while the female is nursing is a good idea if it's an issue...but I think it'll all work out just fine.

Also, again, I have to agree with HP about the designers listening to requests. Really, VF is one big example of this with the previous discourse on marriages, family trees, taking notes, selective childbearing. I guess I am beginning to wonder...if they haven't changed it thusfar...there may be a reason why? Maybe?