I've started a couple families, made sure they both definitely want kids, but they won't have any! They just argue whenever I try. Now they're in their late 30s, almost 40! Are there some pre-existing conditions that have to happen first? Do they need a certain amount of money in the bank? It takes forever to generate the kind of person I want (I'm very picky - must be red-headed woman who wants a large, large family) and match (must be a blond male who also wants a large family). By the time they marry, they're in their 30s. Can someone help? Please???

I keep at them when they argue. Sometimes I seem to have better luck having one spouse "make the move" instead of the other....but that may just be coincidence.


Seems to work since my family just gave birth to their 5th child. They also adopted 1 so they have 6!

You need to buy the baby booster for your couple they need help sounds like to me!!!