I on on 1.0 and plugging away. I do see how ya'll get attached as I have to "my people". I was down to all males 7 and 1 female, she had four babies and the last two were finally girls. Anyhow, she got old, (I made those suckers work hard to get the garden bloomed so she could see it before she died, which she did, so happy. My question is when I turned the game back on, she was no longer around, I really wanted to be there. There are no bones and no extra grave stone. I am so sad I can't find her. Anyone know where she could be?

It's hard to say for sure without more information. How long was the game off before you returned to it? Had your villagers discovered the graveyard yet?

The game was off for about six hours and yes I have seven tombtones. I also saw a few flowers in the graveyard for a brief period but they are gone now.

Well, since you have the graveyard and 6 hours isn't enough time for her to have *ahem* decomposed, then she probably fell victim to one of the bugs/idiosyncrasies of v1.0. Another possibility is that you might have accidentally interrupted a villager who was carrying her to the graveyard. When that happens, the villager 'drops' the bones (sort of like they do with food or building materials when you interrupt them) and they don't make it to the graveyard.

By the way, the flowers were left in the graveyard by a villager who was honoring the dead. They fade away after a short time.