I never played any single VV game more than a half hour a day, a couple times a day. Usually it's fifteen minutes in the morning, fifteen in the evening.
The game goes on while you're away, remember; if you leave for six hours and turn the game off, six hours of work still gets done. Why does anybody feel you have to BE there for it all? I still get a sense of accomplishment, coming back to see what my tribe's achieved.
Edit: This is in reference to this:
anywho...why does it seem to take forever to solve the thing. you have to watch all day and it's annoying when you have to stop playing for any time.