We also tend to forget that we have members from all over the world, who don't speak English as their primary language. Sadly, even those of us who live in countries where English is our primary language, forget that many people living there are immigrants with language barriers.
Which again, is a good reason to tell us when we misunderstand. The forums are about communication, the cure to half the world's ills. So if I'm looking right past what you're trying to ask, let me know. It has been known to happen; I can be a bit of a blond sometimes, despite having black hair.