Sadly this child was in the game I thought I had paused.
And when I went back to it, 36 hours or so later, he had grown up into an adult and his parenting skills were up, but still no other skills.
He and a whole load of other lazy kids were lying by the fire Bored!
About 15 of them.
All had no skills from parents or teaching.
All had their Dislike as Work!
And when I tried to make them do any work I got so fed up of the Word No, and I got fed up of putting them to work, I decided to start again.
I had lost well over 20 villagers in the time, including their chief.
And that is when I found out you can only have 50 headstones.
So they are all listed in the Roster but even though there is tons of room for more headstones they do not give you them.
This was the first VV3 game I began, and I chose nature.
But I sadly lost a few villagers early on as they starved as I had not found out about the Chief's skill at making food.
New game progressing well, and will soon actually play as I have about 500 food now. Should keep me going until my tree produces fruit.

Another point on that game, I do not know if it was a bug, or a Mac bug as it seems there is no Mac patch, we just are playing Version 1.0, the fire had 224 hours and ?minutes left to burn when I sent a villager to gather firewood and then checked to see how much time I had left!
Fortunately I had already got the ash key!!!

But it saved me having to remember the fire!!