I had that event with a male village when he was 14 and one like work and learning and the other dislikes them and can I get him to do anything no-way. In the end I tried him on everything and now he is a trainee in all skills, yet he never become adept in anything until He was 18, thats when I then put him to parenting and guess what, he is after all the females and soon was adept parent at 18 and not far off from master.