He is now (he's now 77) but when I first set him as a parent he was in his 20s I never breed before they reach 21 as I like to get at least adept on one discipline and trainee on all other disciplines. He became adept parent at 35 so I guessed by then he should be ok to leave, made sure that the parent option was ticked and left him alone to get on with it but still no way would he chase the girls.