OK, first I get "Could not open display.  Error code=0xc8660160".  Then I click OK on that one and get "Error: Access violation at 0x004A8930 (tried to read from 0x00000004) program terminated".  When I click OK on that one I hear the music for a second and then nothing. And windows searching the internet for a solution never turns up anything.
I'm not particularly computer savvy, but I've changed all the settings I can find with no luck.  And my husband, who is good with a computer, did stuff for about 2 hours last night and couldn't make it work either.  (Although he could have realized that fixing it would mean the kids and I would be ignoring him for the next few weeks caring for our villages and just PRETENDED to try to fix it. 

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Anyway, thanks for any help you can give.